2. They’re Always Busy Now
If your partner suddenly has more “work,” “meetings,” or “hangouts with friends” that you’re not invited to, pay attention.
Kemi’s husband, Fola, started working late every Friday, claiming he had deadlines to meet. One day, she decided to surprise him with dinner at his office, only to find it empty. He wasn’t working late—he was out with someone else.
When their schedule changes drastically and you’re left out, it’s a sign to dig deeper.