10 Sure Signs She/He is Cheating On You

6. They’re Overly Defensive

When you ask simple questions, do they get super defensive? That’s a red flag.

Femi casually asked his wife, Sade, who she was texting late at night, and she snapped, accusing him of being controlling. He later discovered she was texting someone from her office.

A defensive attitude could mean they’re hiding something.